October 16th, 2008 9 Comments

a special anniversary

While the anniversary was actually yesterday, I just want to take a moment to mention that five years ago I almost lost the love of my life to a motorcycle accident. This time last year I wrote an extensive post about that day.

While I’m reminded daily just by looking at his scarred body, there is something about this time of year that especially reminds me how lucky he is (and I am) that he is alive.

one month after the accident

one month after the accident

I generally try to keep my personal life away from my blogging life when it doesn’t relate to anything motorcycle specific, but this particular instance is where I think the crossover is important to acknowledge. When I think about how much our lives have changed for the better in the past five years, I am grateful that things didn’t go the other way. My life would not be what it is today.

one year after the accident, the year I got my motorcycle license

autumn riding in the White Mountains, NH

It’s easy to take your loved ones for granted until something unfortunate happens. Whenever I think about the accident any time of the year, it makes me give my man an unexpected hug or a smooch to let him know how much I love him.

So for us, October 15th is now the day we celebrate that a day of near tragedy paved the way to a (hopefully) long road of happiness.

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9 Responses

  1. Becky says:

    Congratulations on another year. You are very lucky to have discovered that tragedy makes you appreciate every day of living. Good luck on a long and happy life together.

    Bikerchickz

  2. Dean "D-Day" says:

    So glad that things worked out. I know plenty of people that weren’t so lucky. It definitely makes you thankful for what you have and to realize how precious time can be. Thank you for sharing this very personal moment.

  3. Lady R says:

    Congratulations on your “Anniversary”. After what both of you have been through, you really understand what it means to appreciate each other and enjoy each day to the fullest. I am certainly glad that you still have each other to live your lives with. Your story is a humbling reminder that we should not take for granted what we have in life. Thanks for sharing and Congratulations again on your true love.

  4. Thank you for sharing your story with us again and reminding us how we should never take our loved ones for granted. I’m so happy that you and the love of your life are able to celebrate another year together and may you have many exciting times in the future.

  5. rick says:

    Best wishes! I want a beard like that!

  6. Lizzie says:

    Thanks everyone. You guys are all so sweet and I really appreciate the well wishes!

  7. Se7en says:

    All the best to you and F.F.! I remember the day that I logged into HSN and saw the post about his accident. Even though I do not know him personally it still struck me deeply and reminded me that it can happen to all of us. Perhaps his story has sharpened my senses and kept me safe for the last 5 years. We’ll never know but I would like to think so.

  8. Carol S. says:

    Thanks for reminding us all to give that little extra hug now and then. I know I was really sick for a long time (life threatening) and it makes you think. My old man was great. He took such good care of me during my illness. He even wheeled my bike into the bedroom and parked it near my bed while I recovered. Love stories with happy endings. Thanks for sharing.

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